People Who Stare !!!

Staring is a gaze or a fixed look. When one person or an object is the constant focus of attention, for a considerable amount of time, it is known as staring. It can be hostile or out of affection as well. Staring can also be seen as a common sign of aggression or invasion of an individual's privacy.

Why do people stare is really hard to answer in an exact way. There are numerous reasons why people keep on looking at something or someone. Staring is not hard to notice as you can easily make out if someone is constantly looking at you.

Sometimes the people are staring but their minds are 100 miles away on something they are thinking about!

Staring might be the result of admiration. It is possible that the person staring at you admires you for some reason or the other. It is also possible that people who are staring at you are simply amazed by your attractiveness; you are so cool or crazy handsome that they just cannot get their eyes off you.

Stares can be judgmental  they are trying to judge you by staring at you for long periods of time.

When people see someone who is different from what is considered as 'normal', people stare. Also, if somebody has done something different, like stumbling over your feet while walking through the mall. All eyes stare at that person.

Not too long ago, a group of fellow employees were in a restaurant, People were looking and obviously talking about our group. I told another employee, I thought they were being  really rude. Well the person I said that too, got up and went over to the people that were staring. They politely said Why? were they looking at us and was there something they were curious about. As it turns out they were just curious as to where we worked, why we were at that restaurant etc...My friend said when someone stares , in Their mind they are asking a question! My friend is always polite and will always try to satisfy their curiosity. I learned my lesson that day and I do the same now. Have made lots of friends this way!

I used to pay more attention to how people around me perceived me and I used to notice people staring at me a lot then. Now, I care a lot less about what people think of me and my big lips!!! Or weird hairstyle lol ! I also care a lot less about what others do. So, I hardly ever notice any such behavior as my attention is somewhere else.

So, I would suggest to try and take your focus off others and focus more on what your trying to  do. What I tend to do sometimes is just think about something really cool that happened to me lately and that takes my focus off anything else. People a lot of times do it to get under your skin. They want to annoy you probably because there bored and its entertaining to them. It Just might be you. Maybe you have something on your face like food or if your a girl then maybe your wearing too much makeup or have makeup visible in the wrong way like lipstick on teeth thing. For the most just ignore it for all we both know it could just be the person liking you!!! When someone stares at you, they usually are wondering something! Like , I wonder where he bought those cool shoes?  Or he so ripped! I wonder if he’s on steroids… yeah right.!  It’s all natural lol

Pete Peevey